I totally read #2 wrong (donuts threw my mind off track.. yeah, we'll go with that excuse). That's a bunch harder a question. Murphy would get Harry something sensible, like food or beer or even something a bit silly like a roll of quarters so he can call her from a payphone the next times he's in a jam. But in no way would she make a big deal about it, any gift would probably come with a 'and if you get mushy on me I'll break your legs' sort of warning.