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Well, it's almost New Year's Eve, which means it's almost 2025 and time for my December update. I did manage to keep my resolution of posting at least once a month this year, so huzzah!

I hope everyone enjoyed/is enjoying their winter holiday celebrations or chilling if they do not have such celebrations. Ours were slightly delayed by circumstances, but we did get around to it on Boxing Day. We usually celebrate on Christmas Eve, but on the 23rd, my mum fell on the ceramic tile at the front door because her wet shoes made her feet go out from under her. She was fine, nothing broken or anything, but literally a few minutes after that happened, I got a text from my brother that Jack, his elder cat, had gone into diabetic shock on the 22nd and had been having seizures on and off. So we decided to postpone until everything calmed down and I am happy to report Jack is doing okay and Mum is extremely sore, but not severely damaged. We went to my brother's on the 26th and had a lovely time despite our woes, and met my brother and his wife's new cat, Jake, who is a 13-year-old rescue they adopted after they very unexpectedly lost their younger cat over the summer. He's a sweet boy and slept on my mum's lap the whole night, and Jack slept in a box in the living room with his face hidden, which was very social for him. He usually hides upstairs when there's company. He seems to be doing much better now.

I am exhausted, which is not unusual post Christmas. I also recently discovered I am slightly anaemic and have low B12, which may explain why I've been feeling yucky lately. I'm looking forward to resting now that the Christmas bustle is done. We had so many appointments through the autumn, and this year in general has just been a lot of stuff happening. I feel like I've learned a lot about myself as a person, but the existential crisis of it all is kind of tiring. I'm going into 2025 with a mindset of focussing on self-care and avoiding doomscrolling and finding joy in the things and people I love and letting what I can't change go.

I wish you all the best of New Year's and I will talk to you in January!
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Greetings, blog readers! I hope you are as well as you can be in these continually stressful times. I’m coming down off of a few weeks of extra stress, and feeling it. You know that place you get into that you’re so stressed, when you’re done being stressed, you just have extra left over stress-momentum and you don’t know what to do with it, so you just sort of sit there feeling anxious for no reason? Yep, coming out of that.

I also think I might have had Covid or the flu, but I am freshly vaxxed, so it was very mild. More just sinus pain/pressure and an achy feeling, with a mild fever. Might be post-exertional malaise if I do in fact have Chronic Fatigue Syndrome. Not sure, but it seems to be getting better.

Anyway, the main source of my stress was Pax. You remember my post in August about how the Tooth Fairy was very mad at us? Well, I didn’t mention at the time, but in the midst of all of that madness, Pax developed a small growth on his front lower gum. There was something of a saga to find out what it was, and in the end it is benign, but there was a very scary moment on the day of the surgery to remove it when the vets called to say his pre-anesthetic bloodwork showed his ALP (a liver enzyme) was so high it was off the charts, which could indicate Cushing’s or cancer. But it was not cancer, it was a benign bony fibroma, and ALP raises when bone growth occurs, so that could partially explain it. We also talked to the breeder who sent us an article by a vet who found that Scotties tend to have high ALP for no currently known reason, and any disease or process that raises ALP will raise it higher in Scotties than in other breeds. And he’s fine! I mean, he’s busy and hasn’t lost weight and is eating normally, so the vet is not worried and just wants to repeat the bloodwork at some point. It might be very early Cushing's, which is treatable, and it might be nothing.

He also had his teeth cleaned while he was under and three teeth removed, but bounced back with the 11/10 enthusiasm that he always has.

“This is a very healthy dog” is what the vet said.

We also had the follow up to the spot in my mum’s liver they found last year, but this scan showed it was smaller and the liver doctor thinks it might be a sign of her liver healing. Still, between waiting for that and waiting for the histology report about the mass on Pax’s mouth, it’s just been a lot of waiting and thinking and my little anxious, imaginative brain trying to tell me all the reasons why I should be worried.

Now I am very tired.

Anyway, it’s Christmas time and I’m going to embrace that and craft and decorate and sing and be merry and focus on what brings me joy and try not to let the world bring me down. For the Yanks, I hope you enjoy your Thanksgiving festivities if you are having them.

Talk to you soon!
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Hello! Here I am for a short August update, just under the wire as always.

It has been a time, I have to say. I do not know what the Bard family has done to piss off the tooth fairy, but my brother's elder cat, my dad, and I have all had tooth infections/extractions in the last six weeks and it has just been one damn thing after another.

The Olympics and Paralympics have provided a lovely distraction from all the stress, and I've been really improving on my drawing/colouring, and tomorrow we're visiting my brother and his wife at the cottage tomorrow.

Hopefully the tooth fairy will chill out soon.

Enjoy your Labour Day if you are in an area where that is a thing, and I hope you are doing well and you have happy teeth.
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Allo, mes amies! Sneaking in under the time limit with my monthly post once more. I am now 38 years old, which seems somehow less old than 37 and also, like, a lot older? It's weird. But it's a nice colour, so I'll hope for a good year.

The last couple of weeks have not boded well for that; it's been something of a series of unfortunate events. On the bright side, Pax is now free from all gates! He is no longer confined to the kitchen at night time. He was starting to throw hissy fits and bang on the gate in the middle of the night, so we decided to see if he had just outgrown it and he's been much happier overall and very well-behaved. We've just had some interesting events arise as we're all adjusting to it, along with some adventures in cat-sitting.

CW: sick cats and anxiety attacks, but with happy endings.

Adventures )

So, it's been a couple of weeks. But today we went up to my sister-in-law's family's cottage to have lunch and had a lovely, sunny day near the lake and a great time chatting with my brother's friends who had also come to visit. And Pax stayed by himself without any gates and was a good boy the whole time. Happy endings!

Hope everyone else is doing well! It's Canada Day tomorrow and I know July 4th is upon on us, so enjoy your celebrations if you are those who celebrate either holiday! I will be resting my tired self.
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Squeezing in under the line here in my resolution to post at least once a month. Happy Easter to those who celebrate, and for those who don’t, enjoy your time off!

I write from Oliver IV, my new iPad. Mum’s old iPad finally reached the point where her games weren’t running on it anymore and she reluctantly decided to get a new one. Hers was ten years old, which is like a thousand in electronic years, so kudos to her for her loyalty. My old iPad got knocked on the floor a few months back and the screen cracked, just a hairline crack that was hardly noticeable and not worth replacing it over, but my Apple Pencil kept getting stuck in the crack when I was trying to do art. I got a screen protector, but then the Pencil didn’t glide properly, so Mum and I agreed mine was in good working order and she’d take mine and I’d get a new one for myself. I splurged and got the Magic Keyboard Folio, which turns it into a laptop, essentially, and it was totally worth it. I love being able to write wherever I am and it’s much easier to plug my microphone in for singing, instead of having to take the whole thing out of the case for my dongle to work.

I was hoping it would inspire some creativity in me, but I’m still really struggling in all aspects of it. I’ve long suspected I have some form of Chronic Fatigue Syndrome and I am just toast at the moment. My body aches and I’m exhausted no matter how much I sleep and my brain is foggy. Mum thinks it’s a sort of good thing, that I was too sick before to realize how sick I was. I was in just ‘one foot in front of the other’ mode, and now I’m well enough to want to do things, but not well enough to actually do them. It’s very frustrating. On the bright side, the stones have been pretty good lately, which is probably the reason I’m so tired. All my adrenaline is gone and now I’m beat.

I have been managing to do a sign language course online, though. The Oklahoma School for the Deaf is offering ASL I and II online for free until June, video lessons you can do at your own pace. I did ASL I many years ago, so I signed up for ASL II and I seem to remember most of what I already knew. The lessons are fun, but my only complaint is how much vocabulary they introduce per unit. I swear they teach you thirty new signs each lesson, all in a row, and then you’ve forgotten it by the time you’re onto the next part. I’ve managed to pick up the grammar with relative ease, but when I’m trying to do the sentence exercises, I stumble over remembering which one of the thirty signs they just shoved at me I need to use. I know I can go back and review the older lessons to cram, but I don’t think that’s the way my brain works. I prefer to learn the vocab in context rather than just a list. In any case, I’m enjoying it and it makes me feel like I’m succeeding at something, even if my creative brain is lacking at the moment.

I’m also rewatching due South. I’m about halfway through Season 2 now. It’s probably been over a decade since I last watched it and I’d forgotten just how incredibly good a show it is. So far, it’s holding up really well for a show that’s nearly thirty years old. There are a few jokes that are a little iffy now, but Fraser is usually correcting whoever says them to point out they aren’t appropriate anyway. So much time has passed now and TV has changed so much, it’s making me appreciate even more how great a protagonist he is. I feel like every hero you get now has to be a snarky, dark asshole struggling his way through the world fighting his own demons, where Fraser is positive example of non-toxic masculinity. He’s respectful of those around them, he’s kind, he’s gentle, he only uses violence as a last resort. He has trauma and flaws and vulnerabilities, but most of the struggles come from his interactions with world. I also just like that the show itself isn’t dark and gritty, it’s fun and silly with undertones of drama that develop the characters. It’s lacking in diversity and the female characters aren’t always the best, but for its time, I feel like it holds up pretty well. I’d also forgotten how many car chases are in it. I swear half their budget must have gone into car chases. It’s delightful to rewatch it and remember all the good things about it. And spot baby actors, like, hello impossibly young Mark Ruffalo and Ryan Phillippe, what the hell are you doing here?

That’s all for now. Hope everyone is doing well!
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I'm making it my goal this year to post at least once a month on here, so here I am for February.

January ended up being rather stressful. It's a complicated story, but the short version of it is my mum got a call back in December about an ultrasound she'd had as a part of a regular monitoring of her liver (she has Non-Alcoholic Fatty Liver Disease in relation to diabetes) saying there was a 6mm high density area on it. Through a series of preventable but inevitable events given the state the healthcare system is in, we basically had to wait nearly two months to find out that it was...nothing. Literally nothing, as in, there was an error on the ultrasound image itself. Which, we found out from our GP when we finally got the results from a CT my mum had at the liver doctor's orders, the radiologist basically said when he read the ultrasound images and recommended just repeating the ultrasound in three months to see, but the liver clinic a) didn't bother to tell us that, and b) decided to do a CT instead. Also, despite the fact that Mum had the CT on Jan 17th, the liver clinic has never bothered to call to tell her the results. We had to call the GP two weeks after the CT to ask if she had the report. Mum was very chill through all of it, she was sure it was nothing from the off, but Dad and I are worriers, so it was hanging over us a bit. And waiting for the results was taxing. Two weeks is a long time. I'm glad that's all over with.

I've been in my post-Christmas slump, very tired from all the activity (and probably from the worry from the above). Also the weather has been very variable and I've had a migraine for about a week, a low level one where I'm functional but I have to squint to think and it's hard to read.

We got my bed fixed up now, though. I ended up putting the cover sheet on the floor and the slats from the broken bed on top of that, then my mattress on top of that. It's still basically on the floor, but the slats means it gets some air flow, and it's still very comfy and I'm sleeping well on it. We're going to try to decorate the rest of the room to make it look more natural and not like I'm a starving artist sacrificing furniture for my craft or something. And I made Mum a gorgeous hat, mitts, scarf set for a new coat she has. It's using this wool (the ocean jasper colorway), which I have been dying for an excuse to use for ages, fondling it every time I'm at Michaels, and the green looked perfect with the coat. I'm so pleased with it! The wool was tricky to work with--it felted to itself very easily--but the results are worth the fighting. And I'm working on singing again and that's going well. I've gone from a soprano as a teenager to a mezzalto as an adult and now my mixed voice is very weak because my break is sitting in a different spot than it was. I feel like I'm trying to wrestle a bucking bronco when I'm in that range, like I can't 'catch' the notes, but I'm improving.

So overall, things are looking up, though I wish I could shake this migraine. Hope all is well in your necks of the woods!

Hello!

Nov. 23rd, 2023 08:14 am
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Gracious me! I keep meaning to post and keep putting it off. But I wanted to say Happy Thanksgiving to the Yanks, so I figured I'd take the time to do a proper post while I'm here. Happy Thanksgiving, Yanks!

I feel like both a lot of stuff has been going on and yet nothing's really happened, which is weird. It's more, there's a lot of activity but not a lot of progress, I guess. I have my new mattress and a new fan, and we got my old bed out of my room. Unfortunately, my new bed did not work out. Flat pack furniture is always hit and miss and the central support of this one was flimsy and poorly made. I had two nights before it gave out, thankfully not while I was in it. Much drama was had, but we think we can salvage parts of it to make a new set up. We got it on very good sale, so if we can get anything out of it, the money won't be wasted. Right now my mattress is on the floor, but I'm having my best sleep in months, possibly years down there, so we're thinking we might see if we can rig something lower for me. I feel like my room is a doomed venture; every time I try to work on it, something goes awry. But I am always grateful that I at least have a place to sleep and that we have the means to experiment.

We also had a family friend pass away. My sister-in-law's aunt, Barb, died a few weeks ago. My SIL's family has always been kind enough to include us in their gatherings, so we spend quite a bit of time with her, despite the distant connection. She was developmentally delayed and lived in a care home, and was such a bright, happy spirit, always very fun to be around. She was seventy-two and lived a good, adventurous life. She even went to the Special Olympics as a swimmer, which we didn't know until the memorial service. She will be missed.

Mum's health has improved; she went to the doctor and got some extra meds and is feeling a lot better on them. My stones have been pretty good, but the weather has made me migrainey. Any fellow migraineurs get deja vu or presque vu with their auras? I've had some weird bouts of that lately that I think are related.

Also, Paxie had graduated from the kitchen at last! We still put him in there at night and when none of us are home, but otherwise, he's allowed to wander as he pleases during the day, except in the bedrooms. Mostly because they're messy and full of temptation, which is our fault not his.

I've been watching a show on CBC Gem called "Miss S". It's a Chinese version of "Miss Fisher's Murder Mysteries", which Mum and I watched all of and loved. "Miss S" is set in 1930s Shanghai instead of Australia, but otherwise the characters and stories are mostly the same, just localized. It's been just long enough since I watched Miss Fisher for me to forget who the culprit is, so I don't mind the stories repeating, and I find the changes they make to suit the culture really interesting. The actors are really great and the leads are adorable and have great chemistry. There's a bit of a cultural gap on my part, not so much within the show, but the differences between Chinese and western media. Like, whenever a character comes on screen for the first time, their name pops up next to them to tell you who they are, and one scene had the lyrics of the song being played on the screen. I had to figure that out by screenshotting and running the picture through Google Translate, because the subtitles were not giving me the names or the lyrics and I didn't know what was happening at first. The subtitles are a little hit or miss, mostly just in that they are awkward sometimes. 'That's very sorry' instead of 'that's very unfortunate' and inadvertently making me laugh when a character describes his brother being murdered in a somewhat brutal fashion and follows it up with 'it really gets me down', to which Miss S agrees 'yes, it gets me down, too'. I feel like there was probably a more appropriate way to translate that sentiment than something akin to 'what a bummer, dude'. There also seems to be a trope that if anything romantic is happening it turns to slo-mo and soap opera-like music plays. They only made one season, apparently, but there are 30 episodes (15 stories of two episodes each), so lots to watch, and I've enjoyed what I've seen so far. CBC Gem is region locked, but it looks like it's on Prime, Apple, and Max, so if you have any of those, you can check it out. It's a lot of fun, not too too violent, and the recurring actors are all adorable and have great chemistry together.

Anyway, hope all are doing well in these continually crazy times. Enjoy your festivities if you are festiviting and take care of yourselves!
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Eeek! I get worse and worse in updating my journal. Here I am, though, alive.

It's been a rough time since we last spoke. Mum's chronic back thing is acting up mightily and I've been passing stones like a mad thing, and both of us had the worst migraines of our lives at different points, and even poor Pax had a couple of days of being unwell. We're not sure what happened, but he started vomiting at around 3AM one night and proceeded to vomit every half hour until 6:30, then stopped. Then he did the exact same thing the next night. Then he was fine and has been fine since. I can only assume he ate something outside and then ate it again the next night. It was very unpleasant and very concerning, but he's totally fine now.

Otherwise, things have been just...happening. Like normal. I've read a lot of books now that my brain is able to focus on that again. I've been writing a lot, just original stuff I don't know will ever see the light of day, but it's fun and I get to do lots of research for it. I do more research than writing, honestly. My brain is still a bit foggy for coherent narrative. We've also been very slowly working on getting my room redone, a project I've been trying to do for literally close to sixteen years now that just kept getting pushed aside with all the health stuff that's gone on. But I have a bed now! It's not assembled, but I have it! And a new mattress. And I'm working away at cleaning the room up and out to make space to get the old bed out and the new one in. Our whole house is kind of a mess, which happens when you're all chronically ill. I feel like we're starting to make progress, though, despite the health flares.

Dad has hyper-fixated on Mad Men, which is on Amazon Prime here. He started about a week ago, if that, and I think he's on season six now. He literally lies down in the afternoon and puts it on and watches it until the news at 11. Every hour, you can hear the tango opening theme play once again as the next episode rolls out. We got him a Roku for his room at Christmas time, and he's made very good use of it. It's cute, because he's not a guy who does fiction normally. Everything he reads is non-fiction except for John Grisham novels and everything he watches is a documentary or reality, with a few exceptions that are usually 'this is based on a real person'. He had a The Tudors phase earlier this year, and a Versailles phase. But this is the most I've seen him hyperfixate yet, and it's funny to hear him talk about it, because it's like he's never encountered fiction before. He likes it because 'they all have different personalities' and 'there are lots of situations and scenarios'. So, he likes that there are characters and a plot, I guess. It's very cute. Even if I have the tango stuck in head.

Anyway, I hope all y'all are hanging in there. Stay safe and cool!
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Hola!

I've had my new glasses for a few days now and it is a night and day difference to the old pairs. It's so nice to be able to just...see things at all times, without having to choose between near and far. I didn't have too much trouble getting used to them, so that was good. Though my eyes get tired around 7:00 every night and kind of go out of focus, like they're just over seeing for the day. I'm sure it will get better in time.

An interesting development has occurred in the process of adjusting to the glasses, however. I have long complained of text having a kind of 'halo' around it, sort of like when you add an outer glow in Photoshop. I assumed it was a problem with my eyes, which are shitty and have always been shitty. I mentioned it to the eye doctor this last time and she sort of shrugged it off, so I didn't think it was a big deal. I thought it might get better with the new glasses, but it didn't. So, I decided to do a bit of a Google and see if anything came up, and it turns out it can be a sign of dyslexia. And my first thought was 'oh, I can't have dyslexia'. I've always loved to read and read at several grade levels above my own, and obviously, I'm a writer, so it seemed impossible. Dyscalculia, yes, for sure, I've thought that for a while, but not dyslexia. For interest's sake, I did some research and...um, I might have some form of mild dyslexia?

I'm not going to armchair diagnose myself, but I do fit a lot of the symptoms of it. I didn't know text isn't supposed to feel like you were chasing it around the page. I didn't know most people don't repeatedly lose which line of text they're on and have to find it again. Inability to distinguish left and right? Check. Can't tell time on an analog clock? Check. Misses out words when writing? Check. Poor handwriting, pain while writing with a pen, doubles or misses letters? Check. Trouble expressing oneself orally, including using opposite words like chair when you want to say table or fork instead of spoon, or getting stuck on a word or phrase that won't come out? Check. Like, I though these were all either things that everyone did or just that I did. Like Bard quirks that were Just Bard Things.

One of the suggestions I saw for the halo around text was to change the background to red or yellow and see if that helped, which it did so much. I also bought a cheap set of coloured overlay bookmarks from Amazon to see if that made a different reading on paper, and yeah, it just, like, pinned the words to the page, like it was holding them down for me to read. So, I don't know? It could just all be an eye thing. My problem is ambylopia (lazy eye) and the definition of that is my eyes don't work together. It's nice to have the workaround of the overlays, though, it should make reading and writing more enjoyable. It's just a weird thing to discover at almost 36 years old.

In other news, we have hella COVID here again, because our Premier is an idiot who decided to get rid of mask mandates. Masks are now optional, though I'd say about 75% of the people I see still have theirs on, including us. My brother tested positive for COVID a couple of days ago, though, and he always wears a mask. But he's been out at the gym and at restaurants, so more of a higher risk of exposure there. He says he's doing fine, and his wife hasn't tested positive yet, though last report said she was a little under the . They're both vaxxed and boosted, which should help. We're lucky though, my dad had asked my brother to help with something this past weekend and my brother forgot about it, so didn't come over. If he had, we would have been exposed.

The weather is getting nice again, and we're getting a new hot tub installed next Thursday. Ours has been broken for over a year, and I'm looking forward to the pain relief from having one again. Stones have been on and off troublesome, but overall, I think a little better.

Hope everyone else is hanging in there! The world is scary and stressful, so care take of yourselves!
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Hello there, folks!

I haven't posted since Jan 1st, so I thought I should at least let people know I'm still here. Which I am.

Things that have occurred since we last spoke:

Mr Pax is a man no longer bound by the cruel mistress that is the dog gate. We let him have free rein of the house (barring a few rooms) and he's proved to be a very good boy. We still put him in the kitchen if there's no one up to watch him/listen for him, but otherwise he's free from morn until bedtime, and is enjoying himself. He's a sock thief, but that is the extent of his crimes. He just can't seem to help himself. He knows he can't have socks, yet he always tries to sneak over to the lost sock bag and steal one out. He also stole a napkin from a laundry basket, but we let him have that one. He loves to grab something with his mouth and wave it around, especially if it's unwieldy and/or makes a lot of noise.

I think I mentioned my dad hurt his back in the autumn, and he finally got an MRI a few weeks ago, which showed Degenerative Disc Disease. Not a great diagnosis in that it can't get better, but from our reading, it suggests you may have good periods and bad ones and there are things to do to help. The doctor put him on a long-lasting narcotic for the pain, because she wants him to be able to get up and walk and move around due to other health issues he has that really need him to be more active. It seems to be helping somewhat.

A little note about that: narcotics are hardcore and obviously you don't want to be on them if you don't have to be, but I find it really interesting that my mom ruptured three discs in her back eight years go and had bone-on-bone degeneration in both hips waiting for her replacement surgeries, and I have been chronically passing kidney stones, generally recognized as one of the worst, if not the worst pains in the world, for four years or so now, and at no point were either of us offered anything stronger than NSAIDs for the pain. I don't begrudge my dad the help he needs, and I don't really want to fuck around with narcotics if I don't have to, but there does seem to be some kind of sexism at work there.

Anyway, it's been kind of stressful around here due to that, especially Mum and I taking over some of the stuff he was doing when we aren't at our best ourselves, but we're doing okay. Plus, considering other events going on the world, we are doing more than okay.

Last year, I got two pairs of glasses--one for distance, one for close--to see if that helped things, but I haven't found it particularly useful, so we're trying progressive lenses now. I just found I never really used my distance glasses except for leaving the house (which I don't do often) and my close glasses were okay if things were a foot from my nose but for anything in a middle distance, which was most activities, neither were cutting it. The progressives should help with that, though I've been warned they are hell to get used to. My aunt, who has the same eye condition as me, but much worse, said she's been in progressives for twenty years and found them really helpful and didn't have trouble at all getting used to them, so that's hopeful. I get them in a couple of weeks and we'll see if I feel more motivated when I'm not bumping into things all the time.

I've got my annual month of Ancestry subscription to keep me occupied at the moment, and it's been fun to see what mysteries I can solve, but they only get weirder the more records I find. My mom's great-grandfather and his siblings were so bizarre, and I don't think I'll ever know the full story. They had multiple spouses, lied on census records, went by each others names, lied on marriage records, and one of them disappeared from all records and I literally cannot figure out what happened to her. I want to try to figure out that generation, since my mom's grandfather was an illegitimate child adopted by her great-grandfather, but her Ancestry DNA matches shows he was definitely a blood member of the family in some way or another, and a lot of the stories we were told don't match up with records. I may not ever know, but it's fun trying.

Anyway, I hope you all are coping in these troubling and stressful times. If LJ goes down at some point, my journal is backed up at Dreamwidth and you can find me there as 'awanderingbard', same as LJ, and, of course, if you are reading this on DW, you already know I'm here!
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Hello, all! I hope your holiday season is progressing acceptably, regardless of your preferred holiday or lack there of. Ours has been mixed.

Good news: we solved the bathtub situation by running a hose up the the laundry chute and it works well.
Bad News: it's a bit annoying to have to yell down the stairs to turn the water on and off and you have no control over the temperature once it's going unless you yell down again for adjustment.

Bad news: We had a massive windstorm and part of our fence blew over.
Good news: we still keep Pax in a penned area for his own safety, so he didn't/can't escape.

Bad news: we've got hella COVID cases here now.
Good news: still pretty low, like, overall. Just high for us.
Bad news: we can't gather in more than groups of five, so we couldn't go to my brother and sister-in-law's for her family's get together again, which we do enjoy doing.
Good news: There are exactly five of us in our immediately family, so in-person Christmas is still on (barring any emergencies)

Good news: There are now booster shots here
Bad news: They did that stupid thing they've done for all doses so far which is to announce an orderly roll by age group, wait a few weeks, then go 'vaccines for everyone!!' and let us all fight for them. Every. Single. Time.
Good news: I have fought and won! Dad got his today, and Mum and I are going next week. It only took me hours of refreshing and waiting in virtual queues! Do not underestimate my ability to patiently wait my turn. I will queue politely for hours, jerks.

So, all is copacetic, but slightly stressful here. Which is usual for Christmas. We are enjoying our specials and music, though.

Oh no!

Dec. 3rd, 2021 06:33 pm
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Continuing in a our 'oh dear' saga of late, we have a problem with our bathroom. I was having a shower the other day and there was water dripping through the basement ceiling, which is obvs not good. The plumber came today to take a look and couldn't see what was going on without cutting a giant hole in the wall, so doesn't really know how bad the damage is. And it comes down to the fact that we're already having issues with our tub (which has jets in it that are falling) and the wall crumbling a little, and he suggested if we're planning on replacing or renovating, we're better off doing that than him coming in and cutting a hole in the wall for a temporary fix. Which we agree with. But now we don't have a bathtub. And that is one of the main sources for pain relief for me, so that's not good. Especially since I'm still in a bad flare of stones. And we don't know how long a renovation would take or when it might be completed and it's Christmas time, and my dad has also hurt his back, so my mom is the only real functional member of our family and even that is kind of iffy at best.

On the bright side, we do have a shower in the basement, though we haven't used it in many years since we originally put it in because there were four of us trying to get ready in the mornings and now no one is getting ready in the mornings, so we don't need it. But we can clean it out and such. And, you know, these are first world problems and there is so much worse going on in the world right now. But it does seem like one thing after another here lately. This all in the middle of the worst surge of COVID we've had during the whole pandemic in my area of the province. Still not a big surge comparatively, but for us, quite alarming.

Anyway, I hope you are doing well and enjoyed your Thanksgiving and/or Hanukah celebrations! We have been enjoying the holiday TVS very much, which is a nice distraction for us.

ETA: After some brainstorming, we think we might be able to run a hose up from the laundry sink to the bathtub through the laundry chute quite easily, and fill the tub that way. A bit of a hassle, but at least available in an emergency.
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Ahoy-hoy! How are you all doing today? Are you watching the Olympics? Because we are. All the time. The Bard Family household is 24/7 Olympics every two years, and I love it. I don't care if I don't know the sport. I learn how Judo works every four years, and Mom and I found out how to play rugby this year, and we talk about the diving like we are experts. We hand off information to each other like we're reporters taking shifts, updating on what happened while someone wasn't watching. When we don't have athletes playing, CBC will show a random event, which is how I found myself watching the table tennis final for the men the other day, and the commentators were so entertaining. There was an American and a Brit and the American one loves table tennis more than any other commentator I have heard loves their sport. You would have thought they held the Olympics solely for table tennis, that everyone in the world was on the edge of their seats waiting for this match, that all that mattered in the world was table tennis. And the Brit was a very calm, interested fellow who was not quite so enthusiastic, but treated it like we were watching a high drama soap opera. It was great. The American one was even excited when the Sweat Squad came out to clean off the table. You go, American Table Tennis guy, you live your Table Tennis life.

It's a good thing we have the Olympics to distract us, because man, have we had a series of unfortunate events around here for the last couple of weeks. It started with a seven-hour blackout during a huge storm, where we didn't have power from 9 PM to 4 AM, and which is inconvenient for my father and me who need CPAP machines to sleep and those need power. Then I broke my toe, or at least sprained it badly, by stubbing it on the dog gate. I let out a scream I have never before screamed. If it is broken, it's not out of alignment, so there's nothing to be done by going to the hospital, according to Nurse Mum. It's very, very bruised, but it doesn't hurt unless I'm wearing shoes. We then found out our much-beloved massage therapist is moving to literally the other side of the country, my dad almost got scammed by a fake tech support person (no damage done, just stressfu), and the new mattress my parents are waiting on didn't come on the truck, so they aren't getting it this weekend as planned. But, at least there's the Olympics.

Other--good--things are happening, too, though. I have Pax's leash putting on licked; he'll do it no hesitation now. We went to see my brother and sister-in-law at the cottage and hung out with her father and his partner, and had a lovely time (we're all double vaxxed). And I'm learning to colour lineart on my iPad, and it's going super well and I'm loving it.

So, that's all. Hope you are well in this continously strange times.

Ouch

May. 8th, 2021 10:10 am
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Hello all! I hope you are doing well. It's been kidney stone central here again, unfortunately. I passed a huge 5mm stone and then a bunch of littler stones have followed. Thankfully, the pain wasn't too awful, there was only one period of about three hours where I was in that 'I don't know what to do with myself' state. Otherwise it's been more 'this is very unpleasant, but I can distract myself from it' and 'man, I am FULL of adrenaline today! Whooo! Listen to that heart pound!'. Not sure what changed, if anything, but hopefully it's just a little flair. I suspect it may be due to missing massages for about a month because of a series of unfortunate events. It hasn't been pleasant and am I very tired and not sure it's over yet, but fingers crossed.

Pax is also having a rough go of it. We're not sure what happened, but we think something must have spooked him outside, because he's been really reluctant to go out and having accidents in the house, which is not like him. Once we got him trained, he never had a problem. But we've had to give him a day in the kitchen to settle down and go back to the basics of going out with him and encouraging him, since he's so nervous. He seems better now, though. Poor boy. He hates the rain and it's been raining almost every day for two weeks now, so that may be playing a part. When he goes out in the rain, he has to stop halfway to hide under the barbecue where it's dry to steel himself up. Which is both adorable and heart breaking.

In better news, I have been playing Lord of The Rings Online again and really enjoying it. I used to play it several years ago, but it wouldn't work on Issie, so I've installed it now that I have Flynn. It's likw World of Warcraft set in the world of LOTR and is a lot of fun. The community is, on the whole, pretty chill and kind, though you do see some nastiness here and there. For the most part, though, chat is always trying to help each other out and making jokes and discussing lore. So, that's been a lot of fun. I'm also getting my singing voice back in shape again. I had an awful chest virus a few years ago and couldn't sing without coughing for several months and the time lost there really messed with my breath support and head voice. But it's starting to finally come back, so that's nice.

Hope you all are doing well and if you are celebrating Mother's Day you have a nice one, in a manner safe for your current state of vaccination.
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Hello there! Happy Passover to those celebrating and happy almost Easter to those celebrating. I hope you will be doing so in a fashion most safe for your current state of vaccination and/or COVID caseload.

We're still really behind on vaccinations here. Despite the fact that my parents can now both be vaccinated, there is no vaccine to be given, and the one that they will likely get is the AstraZeneca one which no one can decide is safe or not, so yay. My dad is looking at late April for his first dose. I have to say, I think Canada did, like, okay on COVID. Not the best, not the worst. But the way they've handled vaccinations sucks. It's confusing and complicated and annoying.

/rant

We finished our Easter tree! Pic:
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It's in our window, so I closed the curtain to get better lighting for it. I think it's cute, and it was super fun making everything.

I have my new glasses. They were a bitch to get used to, but they are helping. I've had way fewer headaches since I got them, though the first four days were so painful I was almost in tears. My eyes were so confused about what I wanted them to do. I usually have something similar with a new prescription, but this was worse than anything I'd had before. Switching between the two pairs isn't as hard as I thought it might be, though I still realize I'm in the wrong ones occasionally. I've made a glasses case to hang around my neck and carry whatever pair I'm not using.

Finally, here is a picture of Pax, being his smiling self:

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See you soon!
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Hello friends and lovelies! I hope you are doing well and looking forward to being vaccinated in the near future. Canada has vaguely fucked up the process, so we're a bit behind the 8-ball here, but we're still expecting everyone to be vaccinated by the end of September. My parents should be done by the end of May, hopefully. In the meantime, our cases remain low here, though we do have a few cases of 'Variants of Concern'.

Been feeling really run down lately, and I'm suspecting low iron is to blame. I've started some blood builder to see if that helps. Otherwise, the stones are really good and I think the apple cider vinegar routine is helping. I've been having a lot of migraines, but I'm also waiting for new glasses to come in. My annual check-up concluded I now need two pairs of glasses: one for distance and one for reading. Thankfully, my distance prescription is the same as the current one, so I only needed to buy one new pair of glasses for the reading issue. I had a lazy eye as a child and did all the correction work for it, but up close, it's still hard for the two eyes to focus on something, so my eyes jump around a lot or I get double vision. But the amount of prism needed in my lenses so I can read comfortably would overcorrect the distance vision, so she said she'd either have to give me two different prescriptions or try to find a happy medium where neither distance nor close would be super happy. And bifocals and prisms don't work great, so two pairs it is.

I'm looking forward to the new glasses for a variety of reasons, but one being that Mum and I have embarked upon a Project that requires a lot of close work. Mum is determined to leave our little Christmas tree up year-round because it makes her happy and we're in the middle of a pandemic and she will not be moved on this point. It's just this thing my dad got from Ikea which is a 2D metal sculpture type thing with 24 hooks on it to hang ornaments, sort of like a jewellery display. I can't find a picture online for some reason, but it's very pretty and way easier than putting up a proper tree and we really like it. So, we've decided to change the decorations with the seasons and are now working on an 'Easter Tree', and knitting and crocheting little ornaments out of leftover sock wool. Which is very small and needs a very small hook and my eyes are sore, but I'm having so much fun. I forgot how much I love making amigurumi! We'll do a Spring tree next and a Summer one and so on. I'll post a picture when we get it done.

We've been watching the Muppet Show on Disney+ and it is making my little heart so happy. I think I can trace my entire sense of humour and taste in music to the Muppets and Sharon, Lois, & Bram. Also, 8 Out of 10 Cats Does Countdown is up on Britbox for a new season and remains very entertaining as well. We also really enjoyed Miss Scarlet & the Duke and All Creatures Great and Small on PBS, but they're done now. I'm glad they're both getting second series'.

Apologies if I've grammared wrong or worded weird here. I'm the middle of one of those migraines where the pain isn't that bad and I can sort of function, but I'm also dizzy and not making sense when I speak sometimes.
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Hello, world! Another check-in post.

Things are fine here. My area has tanked our COVID numbers again, and we've had several days with no new cases reported, so that's really great. Ontario is still in lockdown, though, and we don't know for how much longer we will remain in it. It's not too big a deal for us, who don't do a lot, but Pax is starting to look shaggy and his nails are too long and we'd like to get him groomed. Not that it matters to him. He's perpetually happy.

I've finally trained him to put on a slip-lead! He HATES putting a collar or leash on, and we've sort of got him going on his collar now, though some days he just nopes out and won't come near us. But we want to get him used to putting on a slip-lead to help brush him, and he was so stressed, it was awful to try to get it on him. So, I invested in a clicker to try clicker training and now he does it without a treat! He's very smart and overthinks everything, and I think he thought that what I wanted him to do was try to steal the treat from my hand. But with the clicker, he figured out he was supposed to put his head through and wait for the treat. I also got him to shake hands with his other paw, which is something we couldn't sort out, either. I love him, but he is a handful to live with. He ate part of a tennis ball last week or at least chewed it to bits, and we have no idea where he got the tennis ball. I thought he had a chew toy, so didn't see what he was up to until he'd torn it open and chewed half of it up. He was fine, not sick at all, luckily, but it was a stressful night. And today he pulled all my computer cables out of the wall. I also don't know how he did that. But, baby steps! Celebrate the victories!

Other than working on crocheting myself a cardigan, I haven't been up to much. I'm sort of frustrated with myself and my health at the moment. I feel a little like I'm stuck in my body and I can't get out. The stones are doing a lot better, so I'm trying to celebrate the victories, there, but I'm just so tired and sore and can't lose weight no matter what I try. I'm not depressed or anything, but I think I'm in the 'anger' phase of recovery, where I'm just a little frustrated about it all. On the bright side, despite the fact that I had to stop the birth control pills due to side effects, my period cramps have been totally manageable with the TENS machine. Hopefully, with both the cramps and the stones on the down low, I can start to properly rest and get myself together again.

Anyway, hope you are all surviving and doing well!

WTH 2018?

Dec. 23rd, 2018 12:17 am
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Well, to cap off the year (no pun intended), I've lost a crown. It just popped off with no warning today while I was unloading the dishwasher. On a Saturday. Before Christmas. When the dentist won't be back in until after New year's.

Thankfully, it has had a root canal (two actually), so there's less chance of infection, and I didn't swallow the crown, so it can be put back on without having to get a new one. Hopefully. But I am very paranoid about my teeth, which have caused me grief since childhood and continue to suck despite my rigorous attention to oral hygiene. Stupid genetics.

Once again, this is not a catastrophe by any means, but, as a culmination to the end of the year, it feels more aggravating than it might otherwise have been. 

In brighter news, aside from cleaning up the kitchen and doing some wrapping, we are ready for Christmas! With, like, two days to spare. Usually we're in hyper-stressed mode that results in total crash-and-burn by Boxing Day, so this is an improvement and a sign of being in better health overall. 

In the new year, I hope to make this less of a 'woe is me' blog, but I appreciate everyone who has been supporting and reading my tales of woe this year. It's nice to have you guys around. :-D

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Well, 2018 refuses to leave without a few more 'lol, let's mess with the Bard Family' incidents. I woke up from a nap on Wednesday to find the gas company van outside our house. I thought it was for next door, but then Mum informed me there was a gas leak. Apparently, the patch of dead grass on our front lawn is a sign of a gas leak, which we didn't know. But it's been there for at least two years as far as we can remember, so...yeah, that's a long time. And the gas man didn't think there would be any issues inside, but the gas meter showed gas in the basement. Therefore, it's quite possible we've had a gas leak in our basement for two or more years. Obviously, a very slight one ('small and slow' is how they put it) or something very bad would have happened by now. They didn't even ask us to leave the house while they fixed it. But with all the headaches and dizziness I get, and my dad coughs a lot and he's in the basement way more than Mum or I, we're wondering if that's had an effect on us. Anyway, they fixed the leak. Except while they were doing it, they cut the cable that carries our phone, internet, and tv. According to them, they asked the cable company to come and map it for them and the cable company said it would be cheaper for them to cut and them to fix it then to send a person to map it out. The cable people claim the gas people never call and don't care if they cut lines. Whatever, the line was still cut. And they couldn't send someone to fix it until this afternoon.

So, for the last 48 hours, we've had no phone, internet, or cable. It was an exercise in entertainment oneself old-school style. We listened to a lot of music and the radio, and we went and joined the library, which we had been meaning to do anyway, but we were able to borrow a movie from there for last night and now we have access to Hoopla, which is cool.

But yes, no fun. On the bright side, no more gas in our house! And there are far worse things to be without than TV and Internet; it's important to remember that. Still, 2019 can hurry up and come along any time it wants.
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I have reached the 'I hate my stent' part of recovery. OMG, I hate my stent. It wasn't too bad for the first two weeks, but for some reason, last Saturday or so, my body just went 'did you know there's a stent in here?!' and has been throwing a hissyfit about it. It's not a problem if I'm sitting in the recliner, but if I try to sit up straight or stand or lie down, everything starts spasming. I got a stern Mom Lecture last night about giving in and resting and not worrying about whether I'm helping about the house or not. But, like, last night I was trying to put left over rice away and I couldn't stand up long enough to find a lid for the Tupperware container. I'm that level of pathetic. It's coming out on Thursday, which seems like a very long way away, but is at least in sight.

In other 'let's complain about things' news, some person is robot-spamming FF.net with anonymous reviews spewing hate against "CU", which apparently is some group called 'Critics United' on there. Every day, one of my stories gets about 10-30 spam guest reviews all saying the same thing and there's nothing I can do to stop it. I guess it's been going on for a month sitewide, but I've only been hit in the last week. The owners of the site don't seem to be doing anything about it and the only option appears to be deleting the story, which feels like letting the bad guys win. Not a great problem in the grand scheme of things, but annoying.

So, I've just been doing a lot of knitting and listening to music and watching people play video games on youTube. It's Canadian Thanksgiving tomorrow, but we aren't up to hosting or cooking a big dinner, so we're going to my brother's for spaghetti and cheesecake tomorrow night. Which is fine, Thanksgiving is about being with your family, not a big fancy meal. Mom is doing a lot better and has been very active lately, which is good. Once I get this stent out, I think things will start to be back to normal. But, damn, I hate this stent.

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