A Sibling Question

[awanderingbard]

Anyone have any thoughts on whether Harry Watson is an older sister or a younger sister? I can give arguments for either one, mainly that John has the responsible, caregiving nature of a stereotypical older sibling, but the show seems to be trying to parallel Sherlock and Mycroft's relationship with John and Harry's, which would make Harry older. Unless John is supposed to be the Mycroft and Harry the Sherlock.

If we go by 'canon', a newspaper that flashes up during Reichenbach puts John's age at 37, and if you add to that with the (two!) original canon theories about Watson's birthday, he'd either have just turned 37, or be about to turn 38. Which would put him at 35-36 during Series One. On John's official blog, he refers to Harry as being 36 during Series One. Which would make her either slightly older, or the same age. But I think Sherlock would have mentioned if they were twins. And canon isn't exactly brilliant with keeping itself logical. If you go by John's CV, he's 28 in Series One, which, despite Martin Freeman's spritely appearance, is stretching things a bit.

So, I guess it's basically up to me what I want to make her. She's always been older in my mind, but I was just curious to see what everyone else thought, or if I've missed something.

Comments

[aelfgyfu_mead]

I have strong feelings about this issue despite having very little evidence!

I decided the moment I heard that Harry gave John her cast-off phone that she was an older sibling. It's an older sibling thing to do—give something that you don't want anymore, whether because of unpleasant memories or because you've scratched it up. I wouldn't give my older brother a phone or, really, much of anything used. (I did give my younger brother my college tv when he went off to college.) Now as a full adult (and not a grad student), I can't imagine giving either brother a used phone.

I am the middle of three, and I was supposed to be the responsible one. It wasn't just in my head; when my brother and I did the same thing, we got in the same amount of trouble, even though I was younger and was never the initiator—and my parents seemed more disappointed in me! He was 2 1/2 years older, but they expected more of me. And, frankly, they were right. To what extent that was a self-fulfilling prophecy, I don't know: how did my brother feeling knowing they thought I should have more sense than he did?

I totally see John as the aggrieved younger sibling, perpetually annoyed that he's supposed to act older. It goes along with her drinking. It also goes along with my tendency to identify with John on the show, despite my complete lack of military experience, medical degree, or ability to kill anyone.

And yes, I think John and Sherlock sympathize with each other as younger siblings. I see John's attitude towards Mycroft as partly a reaction to his own sibling difficulties. He's totally an enabler in the palace scene where Sherlock is wearing only a sheet! And Mycroft is disappointed in John! And that totally strikes a chord with me (again).

[awanderingbard.livejournal.com]

I'm a young sibling, too, and I think that's why I made John younger in my mind as well. Although I get along great with my brother and he's had to put up with way more crap from me than I ever have from him. But I like all your reasoning and I really appreciate you sharing it with me!